Another day
It truly feels like things have started rolling and we are following a real schedule. After a wonderful breakfast of fresh papaya this morning, Denissa and I headed into town to settle our driving school bill, where, after flashing our pearly whites, we got a 10 euro discount and used the money to buy ice cream. We spent the morning preparing for our classes and at 3:30 headed out to the Vampire (yes, it's an actual neighbourhood) where we each have a children's class. For some reason the children were rather rowdy today and they just kept coming! I had to raise my voice once which shocked the children but after explaining to them that I didn't like to yell, they calmed down a little. The largest problems arise from the huge age differences and the language problem. Just when it felt like these 18 children would never calm down I was sent two angels! These two older children, about 11 and 12, appeared out of nowhere and started quieting the children, handing out markers, and passing out paper. They said nothing to me until I asked them for their names, which they gave and then returned to the children. After prayers, they just left. It was so strange.
We raced home at 5:30 to eat and got back in the car an hour later for our junior youth classes. Denissa facilitates an already existing group, while I headed to a new house in the hopes of finding another group of willing youth. I unfortunately chose the exact time to walk to this new house as the entire neighbourhood soccer team decided to end practice...luckily they behaved themselves and I escaped with only a few calls of "Snow White".
To my great joy, I arrived at the pre-determined house to find four smiling and enthusiastic junior youth, soon to be joined by two more: 10-13 years old, 3 boys and 3 girls...a perfect group! We brainstormed for a name and decided on the Tigre-Butterflies to characterize the group's pursuit of beauty and grace whilst maintaining strength; we then played some games and talked about what they wanted to accomplish in our time together and we parted with big smiles and happy waves.
Lesson Learned:
In dealing with youth and children, one must be extremely cautious in how they deal out encouragement and support. One can sometimes perceive that a certain child is in need of special attention and neglect that another needs it just as much, and you can end off doing more harm than good.
7 Comments:
Hey Miki,
This is very cool!! Can't wait to receive the next installments. OK if I send the link to some friends and family?
Mom
Fantastic idea! I am inspired by you once again - thanks!
I especially liked the "lesson learned" reflection at the end. Dad
Dear Miquela,
This is Billy Roberts. We met at your home in Kinshassa several years ago. I was so happy to hear thatyou are serving in French Giana for a time and it looks like things are beginning to unflod in a wonderful way. Congratulations! I hope to read more and more.
Prayers will be said for you at the Temple here in Wilmette. Love Love!
Dear Miquela,
This is Patricia Shafer in Charlotte, North Carolina, United States. Brava! to you for doing a year of service - though I suspect that you will carry a spirit of service with you throughout your life. I enjoyed your first blog commentary. You write very elegantly, and I had a sense of some of your early sights, sounds and experiences. No doubt that many people will benefit from your "lessons learned".
Chère Miquela,
Formidable ce que tu fais ! et tu racontes bien.
Ce n'est pas toujours facile mais c'est comme cela que l'on apprend et que l'on rend service, continue !
Nos prières sont avec toi et toute notre affection.
Jean-Pierre Laperches et famille...
actuellement tous en Belgique
jp.laperches@skynet.be
Hey Miq,
nice work! I am so happy that you will be posting things in this blog. Things sound like they are rocking and rolling, and I can only say one thing: "Sweet!"
Obviously in the Napolean Dynamite sort of way!
Anyway, i love you, im praying for your success and "hollow-reededness". You are an inspiration. Go get those dwarfs, snow white!!
love always,
Blair
t'es vraiment la plus belle,
ce que tu fais ne peut que remplir de joie ceux qui te lisent. Je reconnais bien là ta force de caractère.
Je t'embrasse très affectueusement et bon courage, c'est comme ça que le monde sera plus uni.
Martine Caillard
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