Miquela's Adventures

The exciting adventures of a youth's year of service in French Guiana and the lessons learned along the way.

Wednesday, March 29, 2006

The glory of Man

"The woman who is asked to arm herself and kill her fellow creatures will say "I cannot." Is this to be considered a fault and lack of qualification? Yet be it known that if woman had been taught and trained in the military science of slaughter, she would have been the equivalent of man even in this accomplishement. But God forbid! May woman never attain this proficiency; may she never wield weapons of war, for the destruction of humanity is not a gloriour achievement. Let not a man glory in this, that he can kill his fellow creatures; nay rather, let him glory in this, that he can love them."
- 'Abdu'l-Baha

We place importance on certain things because that's the way society has evolved, but does that necessarily mean it's right? If our standards/perceptions of beauty and ethics can change so dramatically in say 200 years, why can't our standard/perception of the true role and the station of woman? When will we see peacefulness as being a stronger statement that agressiveness?
More to come on this subject but for now...just think about it.

Friday, March 24, 2006

March goes by...

The infrequency of my blogs is now caused by the fact that my computer's graphics card has decided to crash and I am therefore forced to use the family one, which is obviously available much less often and doesn't contain any of my photos.
It is now the end of March and I am in a reluctant countdown to my departure. It feels like I have found my place here and now I must leave.
In recent news, I now have a new junior youth group, studying the book "Walking the Straight Path". It started as a group of 5 and is now a group of 9. It's a lot more enjoyable than my other groups because the kids are older and therefore can work more independently and we have much more interesting discussions. We'll be working fast to finish the book before I leave which they were all willing to do. The feeling of completing a book is very satisfying.
My Sunday nights are now the highlight of my week as they are filled by a study circle of the book "Reflections on the life of the spirit" - a fantastic study of spirituality, prayer, and life after death. It is a group of 5 - the mother of the house where we hold it, and 4 youth. Last night, two of the women surpised me by volonteering to end our circle with the prayers they had memorized over the week. I think it was a real testimony to the power of prayer and the effect it has in our lives. Some call it just a "false comfort" or an "illusion" but I pride myself on being a logical and scientific person and I can testify to the difference that starting and ending your day with a prayer can make in attitude and in actions during the day.
In far more exciting (and disgusting) news, I was bitten by a spider (I think) a few weeks ago and after getting rid of the infection it has turned into a frightening sight which I felt I should share with all of you!


My personal feeling is that a year in South America would not be complete without some kind of disease and a strange bite of some sort...and as I have now had both I am content.

Monday, March 13, 2006

My fabulous Sunday

You know when you have those days that are just amazing: you feel so happy, a kind of natural high; you feel joy to be alive, purpose in life...well, Sunday was one those days.
It's a surprisingly empty day, considering I leave the house at 9:30 and don't get home till 6. I only have two French classes but they are my favourite classes.
The first one is in the middle of nowhere just off the national highway. (apologies here for the lack of pictures). It's a class of women, children, teens, men (literate and illiterate) and babies. The youngest student in the class is 11 and the oldest is 60. At first I thought it would be impossible to teach because of the range of ability but not so...the most beautiful characteristic of this class is that they all help each other and this creates an atmosphere of joy, which is of course conducive to learning (possibly why they are my fastest moving class too). The literate men help translate, the teens help the children, the women help each other and compliment each other on their latest writing homework.
The day had already started out beautifully when Dee and I went to pick up some of the younger students and were greeted with big bouquets of flowers.This sunday's lesson was on the calendar. I wrote the names of the months on the board and one by one, we went over them and then they had to write them in their books. Bear in mind, this is a class of 14 people, only two of whom already knew how to write when we began. Everyone was working so silently and were so concentrated, calling me over "Miquela! Miquela! It's good? It's good?". Every single one of the students did the work perfectly, and they were so happy afterwards. For the women, these were the first twelve words they had ever written.
After the class, we had a prayer meeting. It was our first one, but according to them, not our last one. There was such an atmosphere of respect and calm, even when one of the children was saying a prayer. When we ended with a song, the women requested to be taught how to say a prayer in Saramaka next time, which one of the men accepted to teach, and the rest of the class wanted to learn a prayer in French by heart.
There is a Baha'i prayer that begins "Oh God! Refresh and gladden my spirit...". Well, now I know what that is supposed to feel like.
I went home for an hour's break and then drove out with the girls to the next class. We all get dropped at different camps on a long road while Dee continues on to another town called Mana, and then on her way back she picks us all up. I was dropped in the village of Dubois with Vic, who had accepted to teach the children's class for the day in the place of a youth who couldn't come. While she taught the class, I sat in the "carbet" (carving hut, where the men make their sculptures). I arrive at 2:30 but can't begin the class until 4, so in the meantime I work with different groups of people on reading and writing. Some of the men are completely literate in Dutch and some of the students can't read or write in any language, so different groups work on different things. However that day I had the most fun with a group of three women, who have been coming very irregularly. Who would think one could have so much fun with the alphabet? We couldn't stop laughing and by the end it felt like there was a level of trust or a certain connection between us. It's difficult when you can't communicate with someone to really understand what they're doing in your village, to see if intentions are really sincere...but perhaps this one on one time helped them see that I really was there to help..not to make fun or glorify myself. In any case, their participation in the class was fantastic that day. Just a few minutes before starting the class, Dee drove up saying that the road was blocked. SO I had two assistants in the class for the day which was great because I was using a worksheet to learn vowels, and it's very difficult to keep track of how 18 people are working. When they were done, the women called me over to check their work and just for fun, I put some star stickers on their papers and told them they were stars. They got all giggly and started comparing each other's stars. This made one of the male students, Moni, very unhappy and he asked for a sticker too. I laughed and said it was only for the women and went off to help someone else. I only had my back turned for a few seconds when he got up to ask Dee for a sticker...very sneaky. So I agreed to give him one but then five other men piped up and said that wasn't fair and that they wanted one too! I said I didn't have enough for everyone and apologized to Moni that it wouldn't be fair if he got one and the other men didn't. This led to a playful argument in which Moni blamed the other men for the fact that he wasn't going to get a sticker and sitting down in a huff. By this time everyone was laughing and I had to promise to bring enough stickers for everyone next time.
This is, as I mentioned in the last blog, the time of the Fast and teaching can be very challenging when you can't drink, but that day, I barely noticed it. However when I got in the car and all the excitement had died down, I realized how exhausted I was and fell fast asleep...but I had a big smile on my face.
What a fantastic day!

Friday, March 10, 2006

Appetizer

As you await a longer more intellectually stimulating blog, here is an appetizer of pictures from the last few weeks. Enjoy!


All ready for Feast!













First morning of the Fast (period of 19 days when Baha'is abstain from food and drink from sunrise to sunset - means eating very early in the morning!)





Den and Dee after Mardi Gras - second to last day of a month long Carnaval when everyone covers themselves in oil and attacks anyone who is clean; you also get attacked with flour (in case you hadn't noticed)




The most beautiful children's class! There are now Saramaka and Ameridian children in the class, a combination that it not seen elsewhere. It is so moving to see that this class has given them the opportunity to be together in a friendly and spiritual environment and hopefully will create a small step towards eliminating the prejudices that exist between these people.




Wonderful, adorable Stephane, who, although would not approach me during our first class, now runs and throws himself into my arms as soon as I step out of the car.












Stephane's beautiful sister, Natasha, who at the age of four has memorized more quotations and prayers than most 8 year olds in the class


















"Regard man as a mine rich in gems of inestimable value. Education can, alone, cause it to reveal its treasures, and enable mankind to benefit therefrom." - Baha'u'llah

"Every child is potentially the light of the world - and at the same time its darkness; wherefore must the question of education be accounted as of primary importance. - Abdu'l-Baha